Archive for June, 2010

Say a prayer today for our fishes!


2010
06.23

When I saw this from a fellow Twitterer (is that a word?), I about peed my pants. Oh my gosh! It’s wishes for my fishes!

Today at 14:30 Pacific, there will be a time of prayer and meditation for all those affected by the oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico.

I don’t know a lot about the organization, but that’s not really what the excitement for me is about. I believe in the power of prayer and meditation.

Am I gonna take a moment for the health of our Earth? Absolutely. And my energy will be added to others doing the same thing.

If you have time I encourage you to do the same. The ocean is our playground. The fishes are our friends. Let’s show ‘em some love!


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MCM: Good day solstice!


2010
06.21

It’s a special day at Sunny Sanguinity. It’s the frickin’ summer solstice! As a kid, I thought “the longest day of the year” meant that there were actually more minutes in this particular day.

And while I like to think time is quite easy to manipulate, the solstice is more about the amount of light in a day. This day for half the world, we will see the most sunlight.

My dad said something that resonated with me: “If you could put the solstice off for a few weeks, that would be great.” I was feeling the same way. I don’t want less sun after today. I want it to keep getting sunnier!

But then it dawned on (the somewhat egocentric) me. Half the world is experiencing their winter solstice. I wouldn’t wish a moment more of darkness for them, so why would I wish for more light for me?

Cycles of life and light are good and natural. Without them, we would atrophy. So I welcome the summer solstice (right down to the sunset), the longest day of the year, without any reservations.

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I get by with a little help from my friends


2010
06.18

“Why do I flip out when a guy I’m into doesn’t text me back right away? If you don’t call me back, I never think I wonder if Rebecca still likes me.”

–Nicole

oblivious

I’m a sucker for those magazines near the checkout lines at grocery stores. Those flashy headlines get me every time.

They’re so exciting that every letter must be capitalized: 77 Sex Positions in 77 Days, 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Man, 8 Ways To Eat Cookies Without Gaining Weight! I’m kidding about that last one, but I bet I could probably write that article.

So many of these articles are about a significant other. Where are the articles about friendship? When you consider that most people only have one partner at a time and are likely to have several friends at once, wouldn’t it be smart to have more tips on friendship?

friends

So here are 5 Great Ways To Keep Your Friends Coming Around:

  1. Be open: To new foods, music, exercise, hobbies, movies, ideas, modes of transportation, whatever! Friends are a great way to broaden your horizons, and they will appreciate you taking an interest in what they’re passionate about. If you like them, then liking what they’re into might not be too much of a stretch.
  2. Be vocal: Send a text, Tweet, email, voicemail, FB message, or even *gasp* send a postcard to say I’m stoked you’re my friend. You make me smile. I’m thinking of you. It takes a few moments to make someone feel special.
  3. But not too vocal: You’ve got two ears and one mouth. Listen and be present when you’re talking with your friends. Remember that they have a weakness for fried chicken or that their sister is struggling in college. Conversations will flow easier and you’ll be wiser for it.
  4. Ask questions: Advice is rarely solicited and often given. Instead of telling someone what you think, ask what their opinion is. If you’re meeting at your favorite restaurant, ask where they like to eat. It makes people feel valued and opens your mind to new things (see No. 1).
  5. Keep in touch: Literally and physically. It doesn’t matter if you’re around the corner or on different continents, make sure to chat at least a few times a month, even if it’s just a quick hello. And when you see your friend, give them a hug or a friendly scratch on the back! Physical contact makes friendships more real.

I’m not claiming to be an expert. But I have some pretty amazing resources. This post is dedicated to all of the friends who have taught me what I know about being a good friend.

My knowledge is by no means complete, but without them it would be absent: Johanna, Nicole, Iain, and yes, my significant other, Sante.

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MCM: Laughter is damn good medicine


2010
06.14

“Living the ultimate positive life? Jesus did that and look what happened to him.”

-My dear friend Iain

It’s ridiculously funny things like this that remind me that not everything has to be positive, optimistic or sunny. Without darkness, there is no light.

And I shudder to think about how I would have pulled through my last job without Office Space and Family Guy to keep me laughing.

My simple wish for World Ocean Day


2010
06.08
ocean

A little girl and her ocean

Today is World Ocean Day, and I think this day is particularly important given the recent events in the Gulf of Mexico. Apart from the fact that it’s World Ocean Day, I was inspired to write this post because of a blogger who, like me, wasn’t really sure how to put her sadness about this event into words.

So, failing at expressing all of the emotions and helplessness I feel while watching a mega for-profit oil company scramble unsuccessfully to stop the overwhelming flow of crude (an appropriate word, yes?) into our precious oceans..I decided to look more closely at what I can do…and what we, as people who are unified in horror, can do in our own lives to have a teensy, yet never insignificant, effect.

I encourage you to read more.

The thing I want everyone who reads this to do is simple. Take one moment (or thirty seconds or a breath or whatever) and send this message to the creatures of the ocean:

How you send this message is entirely up to you. Send it out as a prayer. Sing a song. Send out the vibes. Talk to some spawning salmon if you can get them to listen.

“I know you were planning on visiting the Gulf o’ Mehico for vacation, but there’s this really great bay right outside of Hong Kong that you might like. I hear the weather’s better and the locals are super friendly.”

I think if the sea creatures had other options and knew about the ugly mess in the Gulf, they’d probably swim for other waters, even if it meant changing their vacation plans or possible starvation. In fact, they might even end up saying “Thanks for the adventure.” *fingers crossed*


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MCM: Summer time is camping time!


2010
06.07

I’m going camping this weekend and thought an outdoor movie would be appropriate for this week. What I ended up stumbling onto was a clip from The Parent Trap with Hayley Mills. I loved this movie as a kid and watched it and Pollyanna constantly.

There are some great (and ridiculously funny) parts in this movie, but this is one of my favorites. It gives me goosebumps. Guess I must be psychic too!

Every Thursday is Thanksgiving


2010
06.03

It dawned on me recently that there are a lot of people who affect my life and don’t even know it. And I’ve decided to do something about it.

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A few months ago a man tried to attack me on a walk. Unfortunately for him, he chose to attack me on a day when it looked like rain. The only thing he got from me was clubbed in the head over and over with my big, pink umbrella.

I may look sweet, but you can ask most of my friends: You don’t want to mess with me. Seriously. The cops took my umbrella in for DNA testing, I did so much damage.

I found my lifetime warranty for my umbrella in my desk last week, and I felt inspired to write to Isotoner’s customer service. I told them the story and thanked them for making such a cute, versatile and sturdy product.

umbrella frog

I got a note back from Elizabeth:

What a delightful way to begin a new day by receiving your note! Not
many people nowadays take the time to share positive comments, so I
certainly appreciated yours. We are so thankful to hear your umbrella
was handy when you needed it most and thank goodness your weren’t
injured during the attack. I hope you continue to enjoy the
totes Isotoner products.

I’ve been working on practicing gratitude for the past few years, and I’ve got friends doing the same thing.

After getting this response though, I realized I haven’t done much to manifest this gratitude into the physical world. (That’s Ms. Becca talk for actually saying Thanks.)

thanks

I was taught it’s polite to send thank you notes after receiving gifts.  I’m going to start sending notes to all of the people who positively affect my life but may not know it. Because, really? Why not?

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