Archive for January, 2012

Pssst! Need some motivation? I have a secret.


2012
01.27

It’s the end of January, which means many of us out there are struggling to keep up with a New Year’s Resolution. If you’ve caved, take heart! The Chinese New Year was only a few days ago. You can start again! Plus it’s the year of the dragon, and that means lucky lucky goodness.

moon dragon lunar new year

I heart dragons.

Choosing to work out or be more active is one of the top New Year’s Resolutions every year. And if you’re having trouble getting motivated, I’m going to let you in on a little secret: Exercise is NOT fun at first, no matter what your work-out addicted friends might tell you. It’s painful and may seem to drain you of whatever little energy you have left.

Even the most seasoned vets in the game have to resort to tricks to get themselves active some days, but trust me when I say it will become something you love, if only because of how you feel if you don’t do it … kind of like any addiction. But this is (for the most part) one of the most healthy addictions you can develop.

So if you want a few tips to keep up your exercise resolution, I’m happy to provide them, only because I’ve been on the other side: tired, sick of not seeing instant results, and the couch beckons.

  1. Find your motivation, even if it isn’t the “right” one. I’ll admit it. When I first started working out,  it wasn’t because I wanted to lower my cholesterol and help ease my depression. It was to look good naked. And when I told a friend that, she cracked up but said “Hey, whatever gets you in the gym.”
  2. Make it part of your routine.  Bike or walk to work. If your transportation involves your body, you’re always being active so you’ll never have a reason to skip it. Unless of course you want to sleep at work.
  3. Try to make it something you’re already doing. My friend Nicole went ice skating for her workout this weekend. Awhile ago I spent a few hours rollerskating. It’s natural cross-training!
  4. Show up. Sometimes I just throw my workout gear on even if I have no ambition to workout. And wouldn’t you know it? I find the desire. My hubby does this with his bike rides too.
  5. Do it in the morning. Even if you’re not a morning person. You’ll still be half asleep so you can hate it less and then it’s done. You can’t flake on it. I did this for about four months before I allowed myself to sleep in again and workout at night. It worked.
  6. Find a workout buddy. Craiglist has platonic personals and I’ve seen several ads for workout buddies. I went on a walk with someone I met on Craigslist. It’s better than nothing if none of your friends are into working out. And about that …
  7. Ignore the friends who harrass you about working out. It’s a good thing. It’s not vain or selfish or anything negative (unless you’ve got an exercise disorder). It’s healthy and good for you. Just remember, haters gotta hate.

Just remember that change in the world starts with change in yourself, so keep it up! What are your tricks for getting yourself to the gym or to your workout?

That’s on The List


2012
01.20

It’s finally raining. I don’t know what it is about rainy days, but I love them. Even if I have to bike in them. My garden is singing, it’s so happy!

Rain

Rainy weekends make me feel spectacularly cozy. I tend to hermit out even more than normal. I write this while I’m sitting under a blanket and afghan I’m knitting. I’m wearing wool socks and yoga pants. I haven’t yet opened a beer but it’s in my future.

Sounds relaxing, doesn’t it? But something in my head won’t let it be relaxing. It’s tallying up all the things I want to do this weekend and keeping score.

Will I do yoga? Will I write some letters? Will the ice cream cookie sandwiches get made? Will I make another batch of creamy wild rice with chicken soup? I know, I’m making you hungry.

Chocolate white chocolate chip cookie and vanilla bean ice cream sandwich with chocolate chip trimming

A while ago I threw out my to-do list, so now it lives in my head. I can’t decide if that’s a good or a bad thing. I was addicted to lists.  The satisfaction of crossing things off was oh, so delicious, but they ruled my life.

Now I’m wondering if it wasn’t so much the list, but the list-maker that ruled my life. I’ve been told that I’ve got a bit of a hyper work-ethic and I know my inner critic can get a little out of hand too.

So what if I just readjust how I view a to-do list? As a way to get all the tasks I’d like to do at some point on paper. Just so I can remember them. And maybe have a little more fun with it?

Making a list and checking it twice

Do you have a to-do list? Do you love it or hate it or a combo? What’s on your list that’s fun?

No promises, but I may finally put together a recipe for my kick-ass Minnesota soup. It’s on the list ;)

What’s wrong with this picture?


2012
01.15

A few days ago, an article ran in Plus Model Magazine and I saw loads of comments around various social networks from the ladies in the audience. Here’s the photo:

plus size model with runway model

Quite the difference between a runway model and a plus size model, isn’t it? Most of the comments I read were along the lines of “The plus size model is so much more beautiful!”

Unfortunately, I can’t contribute that kind of comment to the conversation. And not because I don’t know that that’s the thing I should be saying. I know the right, grown-up answer to this question.

But I’m not gonna lie, because I think some other people are and it just continues to do a diservice to another generation of women. It’s time for this say-one-thing-do-another culture to stop.

If I had to choose between looking like the runway model and looking like the plus size model, I’d choose the runway model. Why? Because that is what I was raised to believe was beautiful.

trish goff role model

And I’m not the only one who thought this way. The heroin chic model look has been sought after for years, simply because that’s what women see on television, on billboards, and in magazines. And women and children(!) have been starving themselves for decades, trying to be “beautiful.”

I’m one of the lucky ones. I figured out early enough that it wasn’t healthy to be that skinny. I worked on my relationship with food and exercise and weigh a healthy 140 pounds.

But I still fight my brain on an everyday basis. I own a full-length mirror that’s slimming to the point that my husband thinks he looks sick. When I look at it, I see fat. But I know that’s not true.

This culture is crazy-making, and if models continue to get skinnier and we continue to buy those products, watch those television shows and read those magazines, our children will continue to be sold that message, regardless of what we say.

So ladies (and gents), it is up to us. We can talk about about how beautiful the plus size model is but actions speak louder.

  • Vote with your dollar: Quit buying celebrity magazines that glorify binge dieting and demonize cellulite. Stop using products that hire unhealthy looking models, whether that product is for air freshener or jeans.
  • Examine your habits: “Mother is the name for God on the lips and hearts of all children.” Eat well. Exercise regularly. If you’re starving yourself and criticizing your body, chances are your children will do the same to themselves. If you need help, get it.
  • Please, for the love of god, no conversations like this:

I’m not sure if the physical and psychological damage to women in the past can be undone. I hope so. But the future is bright! Let’s eat ice cream (throw some fruit on there for extra points) and go on family walks and embrace every healthy body.

 

If you love the Internet, SOPA is your enemy.


2012
01.14

I’ve censored the following in protest of a bill that gives any corporation and the U.S. government the power to censor the internet: a bill that could pass THIS WEEK. To see the uncensored text, and to stop internet censorship, visit: http://americancensorship.org/posts/37074/uncensor

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Uncensor This

PROTECT IP / SOPA Breaks The Internet from Fight for the Future on Vimeo.

Learn more about what you can do to stop SOPA, whether you’re an American or not. And then actually do it. Please and thanks to all!

New things are natural in a new year


2012
01.09

2012 has been with us now for about nine days, and I didn’t think I really had resolutions, per se. I like to just do things when they seem natural, but it turns out I’ve been inspired by this time of year.

    • Be nice. In my war against my inner criticit’s occurred to me that in some cases it’s good to have a critical or judgmental side. So instead of trying to destroy it, I’m thinking it just needs some new vocabulary. Every day in my journal I’m writing five things I like about myself.My 5 things   1. My hair is pretty.  2. I make delicious pancakes.  3. I listen to my doctor (most of the time).  4. I’m a good friend.  5. I follow my dreams.
    • Appreciate the moments. I take loads of photos, but most of them sit in a file on a computer and maybe end up on Facebook. This year, I’m printing those photos! Well, not all of them because some look like this:

      nobeyaki steam

      This was Nobeyaki Udon. It's a bit steamy isn't it?

But there are some that are great; it’s not really about how good the photo is, but how awesome the moment was. For this week, I’m having trouble choosing between this:

Big Sur New Year's Day moto ride

and this:

California Academy of Sciences with Sante's brother and sister

California Academy of Sciences with Sante's brother and sister

I’ll probably stick with the second one because even though it’s not about the photo, that shadow makes me a little bonkers.

  • Try new things.  I belong to a really cool Facebook group called Thirty Day Challenges. This is a way to try new and sometimes outrageous things. Some people have survived off of $200 worth of groceries in a month for a family of four. Others try volunteering a set number of hours throughout the month.

    It’s very non-judgmental and kinda fun. And it’s how I cultivated the habits of drying all my clothes naturally, composting and hopefully after this month, eating more raw fruits and veggies.

    kiwi shrimp lime relish

    This is definitely on the menu. (Click for the recipe.)

  • Don’t leave things unfinished. I feel like The Artist’s Way came into my life for a reason. It’s seriously one of the best things I’ve ever done for myself spiritually and creatively. My hubby bought me watercolor pencils for Christmas. Yes, even he believes I’m an artist!

    But I’m stuck, and mostly because I’ve been assigned to read my journals for the past few months.

    my journals

    Seriously? But I've got more writing to do!

  • Do more of what you love. Blogging is one of my favorite things, and I want to write more often. This requires me to be less of a perfectionist. I’ve set up my phone so that I can blog while I’m mobile, which will help because I am struck by inspiration most often when I’m not sitting in front of the computer. I know, crazy!

    Sunny Sanguinity is one of my true loves, and I want to spend more time with it. So fingers crossed, you’ll be seeing more posts in 2012 and maybe some upgrades around here. Thanks for reading and may you be filled with kindness, energy, bliss, joy and delicious food!

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