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Shark Week Tonic


2013
01.17

I once read a story about Prince Charles visiting President Reagan in the White House. When it came time for tea, they served it to him in a tea bag. According to Reagan, the prince admitted, “I didn’t know what to do with it.”

This is sort of how I felt, but in the reverse, when I started drinking tea. My whole life I’d only seen it in tea bags, and when my Norwegian friend bought me some loose leaf rhubarb tea from Sweden, I didn’t really know what to do with it.

tea recipe pms

I was intimidated by these leaves rattling around, free to go wherever they pleased. I could choose whatever amount I wanted. Would I choose correctly? Where exactly do they belong?

I bought a hemp tea bag, but that didn’t really work. It took me a bit but I finally figured out those metal tea strainers work the best. And now, I’m experimenting, making my own teas!

tea strainer

A pleasant side-effect to all this is that I’m learning more about herbology, an interest of mine. Teas can be a powerful medicine, and I’m thrilled to say I’ve already discovered one that helps me every single month.

My advice for the gentlemen readers among us is to keep on reading. Even if you’re never going to experience the pains of childbirth, you’ll most certainly be affected by a female in your life who suffers from PMS. I know. It’s not a sexy topic, but it’s one that keeps coming up month after month.

So fellas, if you’ve got a female friend, girlfriend, wife or sister, you could be a super life-saver and mix her up a batch of this concoction. It’s easy and works wonders. It would be hard not to adore you for it.

heart hands sky

And ladies, you won’t believe the difference drinking a few cups every morning will make before and during your menstrual cycle. Waaaay less swelling and bloating, fewer cramps (I have an IUD and even those cramps are pretty much gone!), calmer emotions. What’s not to like?

I’ve adapted it from Make Your Place, a super awesome book I’ve raved about before. You can find all of the ingredients in a natural foods store. If there isn’t one close by, there are plenty of places to buy online.

I’ve made smaller amounts, but I find the last thing I want to do when I’m feeling icky is mix up a batch of tea, not matter how ridiculously easy it is. This makes enough for about three months.

Shark Week Tonic

  • 1/2 cup dandelion root
  • 1/2 cup chamomile
  • 1/2 cup lemon balm
  • 2 tablespoons raspberry leaf
  • 2 tablespoons cramp bark
  • fresh ginger

In large mixing bowl, combine all of the ingredients except the ginger. Because they’re all dry ingredients, you can have some fun. Use your hands to sprinkle one on top of the other with a little flair. Mix them together with your fingers. Store in an airtight container.

When you feel PMS symptoms come on, spoon 1 tablespoon for every 2 cups of tea into a tea strainer or whatever you prefer. Cut 1/4-inch slice of fresh ginger. Place the ginger and the tea strainer in a tea pot (or another saucepan) and pour boiling water over the mix.

Let steep for 5-10 minutes. I like mine with a little honey because my sweet tooth is rampant around this time.

Remember ladies, there are plenty of other things that affect your PMS levels, so while this stuff works wonders, it’s not going to undo the four cups of coffee and salty potato chips you’ve been consuming.  Trust me, I know.

Are you a tea drinker? Do you have any natural remedies to share with me? I’d love to hear!

Gratitude, Version 3.0


2012
09.25

We’re headed out on a monster road trip soon, which will take us through most of the desert west. We’ll make stops in Nevada, Utah and Arizona before heading home. This will be a challenge for me, as my irrational fear of dehydration death is suddenly not so irrational.

We’ve been planning this trip for more than a year, and I’m thrilled to be able to go. In the past few months, I’ve just been so grateful every day of the circumstances in our life that allow us to do this, that I decided to revive an old tradition of mine.

gratitude board

Except this was in an old bedroom and I moved a few years ago. Since then, I’d keep a list of things I was grateful for in my journal, but they’re so much more powerful when you see them. And then I found this white board on the side of the road that said “Free.” Jackpot!

I bought a bunch of colored markers, hung it in the kitchen and wrote I’m Grateful… on the top of it. A few days later I asked Sante what he was grateful for.

When I wrote a few of his down, he asked, “Are you gonna change that to ‘We’re Grateful’ now?” My smile couldn’t have gotten bigger.

sante and rebecca grateful board

I don’t think I’ve ever really had an ongoing thanksgiving with someone. Maybe during actual Thanksgiving we’d all talk about what we’re thankful for, but this has really opened up conversation and my mind to how much more I have. I mean, I probably wouldn’t have thought to say I was grateful for a four-slot toaster.

What about you? How do you remind yourself to be thankful? Do you chat with others about it? I knew one family that said what they were thankful for every morning at breakfast. How rad is that?

I know in the next few weeks I’m going to be extremely grateful for drinking water. Embrace all your blessings folks. We’re surrounded by them!

For harmony to exist, one must sing along


2011
03.25

There have been many times in my life where I was convinced I didn’t belong here, and by here I mean Earth.

I don’t mean that I wanted to leave the planet, just that sometimes I would look around and think, There must be some mistake. This is where I was set down?

lost in the desert

Thankfully, I somehow landed in Santa Cruz where I’m surrounded by people that are weirder than me, or so I’m told. Although I still get the occasional odd looks when I say things like, “I can feel my neurons firing in places I’ve never felt before.”

My pilates instructor looks at me and says, “You can feel that?”

Duh.

At any rate, I’ve realized that I’m not the only one to feel this way.  And there are people who think like I do. At least similarly. Tom Robbins. Iain and Nicole.  Hunter S. Thompson. Sante Pelot (yep, that’s my hubby). Akira The Don.

And one of my favorite discoveries in that vein is this band Arcade Fire. If you haven’t heard them, listen. If you ever get a chance to see them live, do it.

Somethin’ filled up
my heart with nothin’,
someone told me not to cry.

There is always hope, no matter how backwards the beginning (would that be the end, then?) of your life is.

Gather strength from the blessings you have. Practice compassion. Bake cookies. Sing on the sidewalk. And the beauty of all of it is the more we all do that, the more everyone will feel at home on this planet.

Why so serious?


2010
03.21

Yesterday was the first day of Spring. The Equinox. Y’know, balance of light and dark and what-have-you. Usually I come up with some elaborate celebration that involves fires and ceremony and all that.

This year I didn’t plan anything. Not purposely, mind you, but because it kinda snuck up on me. What ended up happening? French toast breakfast, motorcycle to the lake, hang out in the forest all day, ride back through the mountains, glorious BBQ chicken dinner, fall into bed exhausted.

(A special thank you to Sante, who rode all over the mountains, through trees and on bumpy roads just to make me happy. Well, and I think he likes it too. You rule.)

I’ve never been one for planning, unless it’s something I think is really important. But lately I’ve been learning that importance is relative. And you should never take yourself too seriously.

Life’s a roadtrip: Pay attention to the signs.


2010
02.05


Finding out a musician I just started getting into wrote a lot of the trashy pop songs I love

A week of sunshine when every forecaster saw rain

Blogging to pay the bills

Meeting a man who loves cookies as much as I do

May everyone be as blessed with happy accidents as I have been.

Hope in all the right places


2010
01.08

I have a very strange fear of dying of dehydration. Most of the time this works out to my advantage, because I drink a lot of water and eat tons of fruits and veggies to stave off said death. But once in a while I have to face that fear. And this week I am: I’ve gone to the desert. Las Vegas to be exact.

Las Vegas Strip - for scale

Those who know me know that I’ve sworn off this place. I’ve been here several times, and it’s not really my scene now. Alas, there is a trade show here, and I want to be involved. So here I am. Again.
Once I got here I knew tons of old memories would come flooding back. And I was right. But they weren’t the memories I expected. I’ve been struck by how great of a job I’m doing at life.
The last time I was here I had just turned 27 and swore to myself that I was going to do all those things I had set out to do in life. People say that all the time, but dammit! I was going to do it. I was about two months into it and honestly thought I wasn’t doing too bad.
I wanted to get paid to write then. At the time I worked at a job I hated and didn’t do much writing beyond emails. These days, most of my job is writing, and I even get to play on Twitter and Facebook.
I wanted to be in better shape so I joined a gym and worked out a few days a week. The weekend I was in Vegas in 2007 I certainly wasn’t going to work out! This was Vegas for god’s sake! Now this week I packed my workout clothes without even thinking about it.
I lived in Minnesota, the state I grew up in. No way in hell I was going to continue to spend the rest of my life living there. Don’t get me wrong, I love the place, but have you checked the weather lately? No thank you! I can’t complain too much about the weather in California…because it’s CALIFORNIA! Oh, and I call it home now. Sick!
I started blogging then, and I tried really hard to update regularly. But months would go by and nothing would be posted. Lately my posts have been weekly and usually on the same day. (OK, OK I am a few days late this week, but c’mon it’s Vegas!)
The few days I have been in the desert has been nothing but encouraging. And at the beginning of the year, with new goals in mind, I think most people could use the encouragement.
So in that spirit, I encourage everyone who has begun a journey, big or small, to look for the positive influence in something they may not have considered, whether it be that person who never has anything good to say or a place with nothing but difficult memories. You may be surprised at what you encounter.

New Years’ Blessings


2009
12.31

To those who resolved to lose weight this year: may you get through the tough times, avoid temptation and foster a great love for all things vegetable (without the butter).

To those who resolved to spend more time with loved ones: may you develop a knack for time management, the ability to say ‘no’ more often and an unwillingness to stay past 5pm at work.

To those who resolved to quit smoking: may you meet people who dislike cigarette smoke as much as you like it, seek other alternatives and not kill anyone.

For those who resolved to take a trip: may your savings account grow by leaps and bounds, your passport arrive unharmed and your layovers be short (but not too short).

The Fairy Godmother of New Years’ Resolutions blesses all of your resolutions, big or small. Here’s to dreams coming true in 2010!

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